This book is a true gem! The Let Them Theory offers a refreshing and empowering perspective on how to handle relationships, boundaries, and personal peace. The concept is simple—just “let them”—but the way it’s explained really hits home and changes how you respond to others’ behavior.It’s an easy, quick read, but it leaves a lasting impression. I’ve already noticed a difference in how calm and confident I feel when I stop trying to control things outside my power.If you’re looking for something that helps you release stress and embrace emotional freedom, this is the one. Highly recommend it to anyone on a journey of growth or self-discovery!

Apart from being full of excellent, freeing advice, this book felt like one big therapy session—in the best way! Mel Robbins gives you tools you may already know but delivers them in a way that feels like permission to truly be yourself. Everything made sense and felt actionable, practical, and doable in everyday life. I even shared it with my daughter before I’d finished reading; she tried to snag it early! The chapter on friendships especially resonated with her. Let Them is a refreshing reminder that it’s okay to let things go, focus on what you can control, and manage your own feelings instead of trying to manage everyone else’s.

Great book although Mel is a bit too wordy. An example of her wordiness is when she shares examples, it seems like the list of examples goes on and on. In my opinion, readers are intelligent enough to understand from a few examples not a laundry list full of themThe author also shares this so-called theory and repeats it in a cookie-cutter style. For example, she explains how to use it regarding family issues, etc, and then breaks it down for every other issue the same way and cadence in every chapter.Another thing she pounds so much in the book is the appeal to, “backed by neuroscience” and “backed by research”. I appreciate that she researched the information for the book but it got annoying. Maybe Mel just added extra words to appear like she wrote over 300 pages excluding the bibliography. The book could still have made its point in 125 pages.Overall, The Let Them Theory is a resourceful self-help book and it’s worth the investment.

The Let Them Theory is such a refreshing and freeing read. It really shifts your mindset and reminds you that you don’t have to control anyone just let people be who they are and move accordingly. The way it’s written is clear, uplifting, and easy to digest, but still hits you with those “wow” moments that make you rethink everything.This book helped me release unnecessary stress and focus on what I can actually control: myself. If you’re on a journey of growth, healing, or protecting your peace, this is definitely a must-read.

LET THEMAUDIBLE NON-FICTION INSPIRATIONAL BOOK ON LISTENING TO MEL ROBBINS MOTIVATIONAL ADVICE MAKES MY DRIVING DESTINATIONS ENJOYABLE! I had something like 24 AUDIBLE CREDITS that have built up because I’m a visual person that loves to read. I’ve had the membership for over ten years and I only like certain NON FICTION SELF DEVELOPMENT books which I listen to Memoirs, Self help, but never fiction books, because my imagination is more vivid when I read. I always either listen to my podcasts on Spotify or NON-FICTION on AUDIBLE which is owned by Amazon. I can’t drive anywhere without my Podcasts or very few Non-Fiction Titles that interest me, but I have had those credits and I love MEL ROBBINS so I decided to try it on AUDIBLE. My friends who read that listen to fiction on AUDIO understood why I bought the same fictional title and I had already loved reading it on my Kindle. It was a favorite lifetime reading experience and I own many of the same KINDLE & AUDIBLE versions but I noticed that fiction book that it was one of the most beautifully written books that when I went to listen to it, I quickly gave up because it was bland. I have been told by more frequent readers like myself who listen to the Audio version and recommend it to me on Audio since they enjoyed it better have said listening to fiction is a skill that you have to develop, so I stick to NON FICTION and I need to listen to something while I’m driving so I buy the Kindle Version & the AUDIBLE and it makes my driving to destinations shorter.v That’s why I have Spotify because there’s two favorite podcasts but I pay extra for no commercials and now my top favorite podcast has commercials which I ‘m considering cancelling because the reason I pay extra is because the commercials drive me crazy so now Spotify says it’s up to the podcast. The reason I’ve been a member since 2018, is because it is synced to the Bluetooth, in my car and the podcasts don’t require Cell towers so you don’t get the buffering that I do with Audible in areas where there aren’t Cell towers which we call them dead zones. I’m recommending this AUDIBLE PURCHASE called, “LET THEM,” because MEL ROBBINS is a new motivational author to me, and she wrote the book which she has some fascinating inspirational content, that I have learned some ideas to improve my life. She is a fantastic narrator in her soothing voice. One nice thing about AUDIBLE is they are extremely friendly and if you don’t like the AUDIO BOOK Listening experience, you can return it, which you can’t do with the KINDLE Books. so I have had to return something only twice in fifteen years, since I usually love what I purchase. I do recommend this book on AUDIBLE to listen to or if you don’t have a membership they used to have a free trial and a free book if you’re a new member. But I’m not sure, but however medium you choose this is a FAVORITE and it’s a bestseller that I can promise you will love it, as well. It has a very high rating of tens of thousands of five star ratings which is even more evident that it’s a Spectacular choice!

The Let Them Theory is an absolutely fabulous book—thought-provoking, relatable, and so refreshing. The ideas are presented in such a clear and empowering way.The narration is outstanding. I love that the author narrates it herself, because you can really hear her personality, warmth, and sincerity come through. It feels like she’s talking directly to you, which makes the message even more impactful.Highly recommend to anyone looking for a mindset shift or a boost of clarity and confidence.

This is an easy read and broken down into good sized sections. She does a great job of showing why this theory works while giving great examples of how to implement it into your life. It has definitely made a difference in my outlook on life.

Atomic Habits, the brainchild of James Clear, is a powerful self-help book that promises to unlock your hidden potential and pave the way for transformative habits. If you’re someone who, like me, could do with a few less “gym, fitness, weights, and sports” references, fear not – this book still has plenty of gems to offer.James Clear’s writing style is undeniably unique, sprinkled with a dash of humor and a sprinkle of humility, but perhaps a touch too many “humble” brags for my taste. However, I’ll give credit where it’s due: this candor and authenticity may very well be a reflection of the book’s original target audience and the author’s personality.What sets Atomic Habits apart is the in-depth research that backs up every piece of advice. Clear has done his homework, and it shows. The book is a treasure trove of scientific evidence, making it hard to dismiss the ideas he presents. From understanding the habit loop to the power of tiny changes, every concept is backed by solid data, which makes the book both convincing and compelling.The real strength of Atomic Habits lies in its clear directives. Unlike other self-help books that leave you scratching your head, this one provides actionable steps that are simple to understand and implement. Clear’s practical approach ensures that you won’t be left wondering how to put these ideas into practice.What impressed me the most was the plethora of real-life examples scattered throughout the book. These stories of ordinary people achieving extraordinary results are inspiring and make the principles feel achievable. From the success of Olympic champions to the stories of regular folks, every anecdote brings the concepts to life.While the fitness-heavy focus might not resonate with everyone, it’s essential to acknowledge that it remains true to the author’s vision and persona. For fitness enthusiasts, this book will be a home run.In conclusion, Atomic Habits offers a refreshing take on cultivating life-changing habits. James Clear’s wit and candor might not be for everyone, but the book’s well-researched content, practical advice, and relatable examples make it a compelling read for anyone looking to improve themselves and their lives. Embrace your quirks, dive into the research, and get ready to unleash your atomic potential!

I’ve read a lot of books on changing behavior and building habits and James Clear’s Atomic Habits is my new favorite. This book is different from others in the way it covers an enormous amount of ground in the larger area of self-improvement while seamlessly tying all these ideas back into the central theme of habits.One of the core concepts in Atomic Habits is to focus on the small improvement. The impact a 1% improvement per day can make may appear negligible at first, but Clear makes a compelling argument that in the case of habits, thinking small produces the biggest results over time. “Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement,” explains Clear.Over the months and years, the accumulated effect of small habitual daily behaviors is staggering. Early in the book we are also warned that this compounding works both ways, so we’d better make sure we’re making it work in the positive direction, not for the negative.This is a concept I was introduced to years ago under a different name – Kaizen – the Japanese term for continuous incremental improvement. What’s different and new in this book is how the concept is applied specifically to building habits.I found the information introduced in chapter two about behavior change at the identity level to be spot-on. You’re also given a simple two-step process for changing your identity and this one idea alone is incredibly powerful.In chapter three, we are introduced to the habit loop – cue, craving, response, reward – and we learn how to build good habits in 4 simple steps and break bad habits in 4 simple steps.One of those steps to habit formation, which goes hand in hand with the 1% concept, is how to make it not only small, but easy. In the chapters that follow, this is exactly what you find out.Other ideas of great value that stood out included, habit stacking (the best way to form a new habit), habit tracking, habit shaping and how to design your environment – physical and social – for habit building success. You learn the truth about self-control, how to stop procrastinating and how to use implementation intentions, temptation bundling and motivational rituals. The book is simply packed with actionable ideas, tactics and strategies.Virtually every idea in the book is useful and resonated with me. While I may not agree that we should “forget about goals,” I agree with one of Clear’s core principles in the book – that we must develop systems for change. If we only focus on goals and don’t develop systems and a focus on the process, we risk falling into a number of goal-related traps which ultimately lead to stagnation. With the right systems, we’re rewarded with continuous improvement on a lifelong journey of success.Another difference between Atomic Habits and other books in this genre is that while it’s based on science it doesn’t bog you down with unnecessary details of the research. Clear’s book is intensely practical, giving you a huge toolkit of organized and named strategies you can apply immediately to create and strengthen positive habits and stop the negative ones.The book is conversational, and includes many interesting stories, making it easy to read – and hard to put down (I read it cover to cover in one day).It’s possible this might become your most highlighted personal improvement book because every page is so chocked full of memorable and quotable gems of advice.

I absolutely love this book and read it over again every year or two. So practical. So simple. So profound.

I think I know what happened to Mark Zuckerberg that caused him to transform from goofy internet dweeb to ripped Sigma male – he read this book. This book shares so many though-provoking ideas packed into like the first three chapters. Those ideas blew my mind and have honestly been super helpful … But then the book proceeds to beat you over the head with how-to instructions for the remaining chapters. Its all very repetitive and formulaic. Here is a made-up example that pretty much covers the formula for most of the late chapters “researchers in 1927 discovered that a certain species of birds make their nests next to an open body of water so the birds habitually drink alot of water. Form a good habit by building your home office (nest) next to a treadmill (body of water)”Overall, the ideas in the book are powerful and have positively affected daily habits… so… mission accomplished!

Over 5 years ago, I began following Scott Galloway on his podcasts Prof G and Pivot. I have found him to not only be highly entertaining but incredibly thoughtful on business and life. I have given his book The Alegebra of Wealth out to several of the Associates I work with when they are looking for ways to start to build the foundation of lifetime wealth.Scott’s latest book Notes on Being a Man, shifts his focus to a topic that he has been passionately speaking to for the last year or so and that is the challenge that young men are facing in today’s enviroment. Young men today find themselves:24% less wealthy than their parents were at their ageMore likely to NOT be participating in the workforceAttending college at a lower rate than their female peersMore likely to take their own livesScott uses his life journey to introduce concepts for young men to consider following. From fitness to fatherhood, manners to work habits, Scott shares his own journey, the successes he has had, the misstakes he made and the research that supports helping young men find a better path.My favorite chapter was on Friendship. In it Scott talks about the benefits of creating and maintaining friendships over the course of one’s life. As I read this chapter it took me back to a specific evening in my own life. Six years ago my oldest son passed away from medical challenges as a result of his disabilities. He as 31 years old. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever had to deal with in my life and yet my heart was made full as I looked down a long recieving line to see friends from every phase of my life. From my oldest friends I met in kindergarten, to my dorm mates from college, to my colleagues from work, there were dozens and dozens of friends who went out of their way to be there for me and my family. Not a recommended way to be demonstrated the value of growing and maintaining friendships, but the best example I have.If you have a young man in your life, I highly recommend you share this book with them. And if you are a teacher or leader of young men, I recommend reading it yourself to offer additional insights that you can share with them.And as you finish this, reach out to an old friend you haven’t talked to in a while. They’ll be excited to hear from you.

As a pediatrician and a mother of two sons, I have often worried society is leaving our young men behind, so I very much looked forward to this book. While I didn’t agree with everything, I found a lot of Galloway’s advice and insights to be on the mark. Of course, the author and I are both Gen X-ers with similar backgrounds, so we’re going to look at things differently than Gen Z-ers, but much of it will still be helpful to today’s young men. His comments on the importance of being kind, getting off the couch and getting involved with something, interacting with people in real life rather than online (even though it might be difficult and awkward at first), treating the women in your life well, staying healthy, etc., are good nuggets of advice no matter our age (or gender for that matter).I also respect Galloway’s relationship with his sons. Too many young men don’t have good male role models, so kudos to the author for recognizing that and going out of his way to not only mentor and guide his own sons, but other young men as well.All and all I really enjoyed the book. I bought a copy for each of my young-adult sons, so we’ll see if they feel the same!

This book is full of unique and sensitive insights about all aspects and stages of a man’s life. I am a 77-yr-old great grandmother of a 4-yr-old boy, grandmother of two boys in their early 20s, and mother of 3 grown men. The vignettes in this book hit home on all three generations chapter by chapter. Being of another time, I cringed at some of the candor/honesty of his revelations, but I have to understand the changes in time and practices. I am gifting it all around my family.

I bought this after seeing him on the Today Show. So far not impressed. It’s more like a retell of his life not a lot of clear advice.

What an incredible LOVE LETTER to his family and to the young men of America! Scott Galloway is “spot on” with his observations and his recommendations to assist in “educating” young men and their parents who might feel a bit lost right now. It’s pretty much all common sense, but sometimes we need a great storyteller to lead us along the path to recognition and greatness.The Three “Ps”…I won’t give it away. Just read and appreciate the love in this book!

Lots of great nuggets and quotes I found myself highlighting. Pretty simple concepts made easy to implement. The message is good and healthy probably exactly what I needed to read as it resonates.

Love this book! Great message of how to live a more peaceful life. How to let go, trust yourself more & how leading a peaceful life is more rewarding than trying to chase happiness. I loved this book.Thank you!

This is a must read bookI was in a time of leaving my 10 years toxic marriage when i found out this book. I was in the process of transforming my life for better. And one of the techniques i was using to rewire my brain from trauma is reading books. Guys! This book is a life changing. If you are in any life situation that holds you back this is your guide. It covers almost all areas of life. It gives you life strategies and solution and view life in different angle. When i start reading this book, i couldnt put it down, every page wants me to move forward. I read it for 2 days and i finish the book.Everything is point, no overexplaing, the info is clear.I will read this book not only again and again but as long as i live in this world and i will leave this to my kids.THIS BOOK IS A GEM!Thank you Daniel Chidiac, you dont know how much your book has impacted in peoples lives.

Gives you validation for thinking the way you think, but also gives you researched backed examples on how to react or change your thinking/behaviors. Definitely recommend

This is truly one of the best books I’ve ever read. It taught me lessons that no therapy session ever could. The writing is excellent, and I’ve already shared it with at least ten people. I wholeheartedly recommend this book to anyone who wants to learn how to let go of the small things that so often turn into big problems.

I really enjoyed reading this book! It was very applicable to my life and helped me understand myself better. I highlighted parts that really resonated with me so I can go back and re-read them from time to time as this book offers great advice and explanations.

This book was a great book to read and it answered alot of questions that I had about myself and my experiences. Now I can continue on my journey and continue to live a peaceful life without any guilt of putting me first and blocking anything that doesn’t serve a purpose. Because I control what I allow into my life.

I just got this book today Oct 26, and I’m only on page 20 and I cannot believe how spot on this book is. I’ve been wanting to read this book for a while as someone keeps posting on Instagram bits and pieces of this book and I was sewing treated. I finally got it, and I am absolutely thrilled that I decided to go ahead and get it from someone who has been struggling for years and years to understand why I let everything affect me. So far, I am loving this book and I can’t put it down. I just want to thank the author of this book. If you’re considering getting this book, please do not hesitate. I will update a review as I continue to read, but so far this book is fantastic.

Strong Ground: The Lessons of Daring Leadership, the Tenacity of Paradox, and the Wisdom of the Human Spirit” is the rare kind of work that meets you exactly where you are—whether that’s standing in the rubble of uncertainty or on the edge of a breakthrough. Drawing on Brené Brown’s signature blend of research, story, and raw humanity, this book (and companion materials) translate the abstract concepts of vulnerability, courage, and leadership into something deeply actionable.What sets Strong Ground apart is how practical it is. Instead of lofty inspiration alone, it gives you tools to live differently—how to hold paradox without losing your center, how to lead when the way forward isn’t clear, and how to rise when perfectionism and fear whisper that you can’t. You begin applying these lessons immediately—in how you parent, communicate, lead a meeting, or repair a relationship. It’s a guide for those of us still figuring out how to stay open-hearted in a world that often rewards armor.Pros:Transforms Brené’s research into real-world practice—you feel it shifting how you show up.Deeply relatable storytelling balanced with intellectual rigor.Encourages personal reflection without drifting into self-help cliché.Perfect blend of leadership theory, emotional intelligence, and spiritual grounding.Comparable to multi-thousand-dollar leadership retreats in terms of value and clarity.Cons:Requires emotional honesty—if you’re looking for quick fixes, this isn’t it.Some sections invite slower reading and reflection; not ideal for those seeking a fast read.Use Cases:Ideal for emerging and seasoned leaders, change agents, coaches, or anyone rebuilding confidence and clarity after a season of doubt. It bridges personal growth and professional leadership with rare authenticity.Compared to programs and workshops costing ten times more, Strong Ground delivers equivalent impact in a fraction of the cost—and with infinitely more heart.In short: this isn’t just a book. It’s an invitation to come home to yourself—and to lead from that place of grounded strength.

I’ve learned a lot from Brené Brown over the years, so I was eager to read Strong Ground when it was first announced—and it did not disappoint.One of the things I’ve always appreciated about her work is how her books reflect the evolution of her research. Each one feels like a natural progression, building on what she’s discovered and experienced, and Strong Ground is no exception.What makes this book feel especially unique is how she shines a spotlight on the key teachers and researchers who have influenced her along the way. Their inclusion creates a sense of community, and it’s a great example of how Brené uses her platform to amplify other voices. The way she connects their work with her own adds depth and makes the book feel both collaborative and grounded in shared purpose.With Strong Ground, Brown continues to evolve as both a researcher and a storyteller, offering readers a layered and collaborative exploration of her latest findings.

I ebded up buying the physical book as well as the audiobook since I wanted to mark important point. I listened toany leadrship books and this one had the most impact.I also love that she recommends other writers.

Outstanding. So many important points and the metaphors/analogies you need to make them more accessible. This book is the developing/advanced leader’s bible. If you can internalize everything Brown has to say, you’ll be on your way to leading a thriving organization.

The book challenges you to rethink and reevaluate how you emotionally and physically move through work life and home life. I like how she frames the term paradox. You like to frame things as binary, when in reality it is often X and Y, as opposed to X or Y. Paradoxes exist through every aspect of our being and it requires strong ground for us navigate. Ms. Brown helps us to understand that we must be intentional in our life choices. The best way to do that is to be a person who is committed to a life of ongoing learning and growing emotionally, physically, and spiritually. In these current times we all need to read this book and follow the directions put forward by Ms. Brown. For those in leadership in corporations and government, they really need to read this book, and take heed.

There were some excellent ideas in this book. I especially appreciated her interacting with the ideas of Adam Grant. Overall, it was a bit more business focused than I would have liked, but it was good.

Brené Brown is a great speaker. Always re-listen to all her books. Highly recommend and highly respect her insights and research. Really appreciate that she updates results of previously published research. I have found many of her revelations highly relatable. She’s candid and transparent. Recommend ALL her books enthusiastically!!

Great book

This compelling memoir makes you feel like you’re right there, along for the ride. Oz offers valuable reminders on persistence and staying calm under pressure, while beautifully demonstrating the power of interpersonal skills, human connection and self-reflection. In a world focused on tech, this book is a refreshing guide to developing these essential human attributes. As for me and the journey I am currently on, the story of ‘the guy with the crazy eyes’ that haunted Oz for a year really resonated. We’re all on some kind of journey, use this book as a tool to help you get to where you want to be.Tyson Schoel

As a Partner at a civil-rights firm in NYC, I’m accustomed to reading depositions, interrogating witness statements, and parsing what someone really meant when they said “I don’t recall.” But I never expected to learn how to read my own mind—let alone everyone else’s—until I cracked open this book by Oz Pearlman.From the first chapter, Pearlman takes you behind the curtain of his celebrated mental-magic career and offers concrete, no-nonsense mental “habits” rather than flashy illusions. He shows you how to sharpen your memory, build confidence, read a room, influence without manipulation, and tame your internal “objection” voice (yes, I’m looking at you, inner colleague who loves to say “Sustained!”)Oz Pearlman | Mentalist+2Amazon+2For my day job—litigating police-brutality and false-arrest cases—I already thought I had a pretty decent radar for human behavior. This book upgraded that radar into a tactical advantage. But more importantly, it’s the internal work (habits, mindset, emotional insight) that hits hardest. Pearlman reminds you: it’s not about “mind-reading” like a magic trick—it’s about mindset mastery that unlocks influence, connection, clarity.Barnes & Noble+1And yes: it’s life changing. I’ve already caught myself pausing before entering a negotiation prep, applying one of his techniques to visualize the outcome—and it works. (No illusions involved.) Even my kids asked: “Dad, did you read my mind?” — I told them: not quite, just read your room (six-year-old Sunny still thinks I’m magic; four-year-old Lux is suspicious of Dad’s super-powers).Bottom line: If you’re done with fluff self-help books and want something that actually shifts how you think, how you connect, and how you act—don’t just buy this book—commit to it. Pearlman gives you the tools. You bring your suit (metaphorically—or literally, if you’re a lawyer).Thank you, Oz. I’m never going back to “just winging it” in a conference room—or a courtroom.

Oz’s Read Your Mind is a surprisingly engaging and insightful read. It breaks down complex ideas about intuition, communication, and human behavior in a way that feels easy to absorb and genuinely useful. I’ve known him since I was a little kid, him and my dad used to run together everyday, so I had to buy this book! The stories and examples make the concepts stick, and the pacing keeps you turning pages. Whether you’re looking to better understand others or sharpen your own awareness, this book delivers practical takeaways without feeling heavy. Great guy, great book, definitely deserves a read.

I really wanted to like this book. I saw an interview with the author on television and was intrigued. But I only got though a few chapters before giving up. The author does have a few good suggestions, but for me this book was more of a vehicle for the author to tell the story of his life. A great deal of each chapter was devoted to the author’s personal experience, and I did not find it relatable. I was looking for more of a step by step methodology of things I could incorporate into my life, and this is not that.

I’ve sat back in awe of Oz Pearlman’s rise over the past decade. What he’s accomplished in the world of magic and mind reading is truly unprecedented. He’s set a new standard for what’s possible in modern mentalism, performing at a level that few—if any—have ever reached.This book finally gives us a glimpse inside his mind: the thinking, mindset, and preparation behind performing under immense pressure and high stakes. It’s equal parts inspiring and insightful.Whether you’re a magician, a performer, or simply someone fascinated by human potential, Read Your Mind is a must-read. It has my highest recommendation.

First chapter rambles on .

I’m on chapter 3, so I’ll update this review once completed (if warranted).What this books is: a feel good book that tells you to believe in yourself, to visualize success, and how to be mentally strongWhat this book is not: how to better read people and how to have better intuition about people (e.g., are they a good person, are they trustworthy)

I read Oz’s book because I had met him once and was curious about his mentalism act. But what I found in the book was a lot of good advice – work hard, take notes, listen carefully to people, use honesty and smile to charm people and avoid fights, avoid negative self talk, set goals, cultivate relationships, prepare in depth for your act. It’s good to hear this advice coming from someone so effective and successful. Oz’s book is going to help me sell my own book, as well as position for upside at work.My only disappointment is that the book does not actually teach you how to read someone’s mind!

This book is a game changer. It cuts through the usual self help fluff and gets straight to the point with raw honesty and real life truth. The author challenges the idea that we need to be positive all the time and explains how choosing what truly matters while letting go of the rest leads to a more meaningful life. The writing is bold, funny and brutally real which kept me engaged from start to finish. If you are tired of cliché advice and want something practical that actually sticks with you then this book is worth reading. Five stars.

Great read, I think Mark brings in a lot of thought provoking, introspective questions. The book is a little intense but I believe thats the point. Its important to learn where to spend your time and energy in life and Mark tells us how to do that through this book. Excited to read more from this author as this is the first of his books I’ve tried.

I highly enjoyed this book, full of meaning and sometimes philosophical discussions. What I liked the most were the case studies. All of them are very exciting and full of lessons we all can learn from. Actually the author opens the book with one. I can’t recommend this book enough. Not to be missed.

This book is a quick and simple read, but soaked in meaning. It’s worth reading over and over to remind us how to live and how to love more deeply. It’s teaching us to care about our own growth and development.

So I don’t have much I disliked about the book if anything. It’s a relatively fast read I think 200 pages or so and for me and Mark Manson we are about the same as far as childhood goes. Little burnout stoner kid here. Probably quite a dick head My dad passed when I was 13 and things kind of went downhill from there. Ended up in BD schools and what not for those of you do not know behavioral disorder lol. Anyway I can relate a lot to this book. From myself I just quit smoking and I’m trying to quit drinking I could drop smoking about 5 months ago I’ve got a 9-year-old boy a beautiful wife I’ve been with almost 10 years now. But I’m trying to get my s*** together and so I’m looking for books like this and some self-help books. I just feel like this book was what I needed right now. Some of it is kind of a smack in the face like get your s*** together. I like how he tells it like it is. I’m not a huge fan of sugarcoating stuff. At one point in the book he says his wife came out all dressed up and wanted his input and he said I don’t think he looked that good lol That’s the s*** that I would say to my wife but she likes it that way. And I don’t want to tell her she looks good if she looks bad and then she goes out and people are giving a weird looks hahaha. Anyway it’s a damn good read I recommend it highly. There’s some pretty good side stories as well. The one about his friend and the cliff that one kind of hit hard. I’ll tell you what I’m going to read his other book I noticed he has another book about hope or something so I will be checking that out right now. I wish I could find another books similar to this book it was such a good one I’m really sad that I’m finished with it. Good stuff Mark Manson. Keep up the good work!!! Looks like this is what humanity needs for guidance. I think we all need to read certain books in our lifetime and by certain books I mean all of them.

respond.”I find a book with the F word in the title pretty hard to resist, which is why I chose to buy this one, even though I hate self-help books. The first few times I read the F word in the book, I smiled. Eventually, it stopped being funny. I think that several of the ideas in this book make sense, for example (p 7), “…we humans have the luxury of being able to have thoughts about our thoughts.” Thinking about your thinking, I think, is an important part of good mental health. The author gives the example of situations involving a couple of musicians. One’s less success than expected bothered him a lot, the other guy realized that things turned out well for him in spite of the fact that he was kicked out of the Beatles and replaced by Ringo. In fact, he provides lots of examples like this. He also debunks the whole Power of Positive Thinking concept, saying that all that positive thinking happens because we think that the way we are without those affirmations is somehow not okay. I’m not a proponent of affirmations, so I’m not sure I have an opinion on that.There are a few other concepts that I remember off the top of my head that are useful, that of having to work really hard to be really good at things (the 10,000 hours of Gladwell’s Outliers), the fact that You Are Not Special (wish my acquaintances could say that about their kids and themselves), the fact that most struggle with mortality and although we all know we are going to die someday, we don’t (can’t) deal with that in a healthful way.It’s not so much that I don’t like the author’s ideas or in your face writing style, it’s more the fact that I find others’ ideas more useful. For example, best book of all time on this subject: Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl. Content of the Subtle Art pales in comparison. Coming Home: Uncovering the Foundations of Psychological Well-being by Dr. Dicken Bettinger and Natasha Swerdloff is also better…but you have to have a certain level of background knowledge about this thinking about your thinking to “get” that book. Also, The Power of Meaning: Crafting a Life That Matters by Emily Esfahani Smith has a few flaws, but overall, is a really useful book that explains that searching for happiness is not the path to happiness. Doing good deeds will lead to happiness (as my existentialist son points out, we do nice things for people because it makes us feel good, a point about which I can’t disagree).In summary, while the author makes a few good points in this over the top in your face sort of story, by the end, the novelty of excessive F Word usage wore off. A better book (besides the ones already mentioned) 10% Happier by Dan Harris. Entertaining, useful…and very few swear words.

I had been expecting a modern re-framing of the ancient Stoic philosophy, but that’s not what this book is. The author makes the point that you need to be judicious about what you care about. If you care about too many things, it will drive you crazy; however, if you don’t care about anything, you’re a sociopath. He also stresses that there can be value in suffering.The lessons are shared in a rather amusing, but vulgar, manner. I thought that this book was a very worthwhile read.

As a Partner at a civil-rights firm in NYC, I’m accustomed to reading depositions, interrogating witness statements, and parsing what someone really meant when they said “I don’t recall.” But I never expected to learn how to read my own mind—let alone everyone else’s—until I cracked open this book by Oz Pearlman.From the first chapter, Pearlman takes you behind the curtain of his celebrated mental-magic career and offers concrete, no-nonsense mental “habits” rather than flashy illusions. He shows you how to sharpen your memory, build confidence, read a room, influence without manipulation, and tame your internal “objection” voice (yes, I’m looking at you, inner colleague who loves to say “Sustained!”)Oz Pearlman | Mentalist+2Amazon+2For my day job—litigating police-brutality and false-arrest cases—I already thought I had a pretty decent radar for human behavior. This book upgraded that radar into a tactical advantage. But more importantly, it’s the internal work (habits, mindset, emotional insight) that hits hardest. Pearlman reminds you: it’s not about “mind-reading” like a magic trick—it’s about mindset mastery that unlocks influence, connection, clarity.Barnes & Noble+1And yes: it’s life changing. I’ve already caught myself pausing before entering a negotiation prep, applying one of his techniques to visualize the outcome—and it works. (No illusions involved.) Even my kids asked: “Dad, did you read my mind?” — I told them: not quite, just read your room (six-year-old Sunny still thinks I’m magic; four-year-old Lux is suspicious of Dad’s super-powers).Bottom line: If you’re done with fluff self-help books and want something that actually shifts how you think, how you connect, and how you act—don’t just buy this book—commit to it. Pearlman gives you the tools. You bring your suit (metaphorically—or literally, if you’re a lawyer).Thank you, Oz. I’m never going back to “just winging it” in a conference room—or a courtroom.

Excellent book. Absolutely excellent. I am reading some of these reviews and those reviewers do not understand that in order to do what he does, you MUST be able to read your own mind—in other words, understand yourself and challenge the heck out of yourself so you become better. Self-help book—yup, but so fricken much more. He describes in detail how he does his tricks, for those of you that don’t believe it—read it again. Every chapter is built upon the previous chapter, and at times it gets heavy, but he nails it everytime. I’ve been in business for many years and he doesn’t minx words—he says it like it is. Great read.

Oz’s Read Your Mind is a surprisingly engaging and insightful read. It breaks down complex ideas about intuition, communication, and human behavior in a way that feels easy to absorb and genuinely useful. I’ve known him since I was a little kid, him and my dad used to run together everyday, so I had to buy this book! The stories and examples make the concepts stick, and the pacing keeps you turning pages. Whether you’re looking to better understand others or sharpen your own awareness, this book delivers practical takeaways without feeling heavy. Great guy, great book, definitely deserves a read.

I really wanted to like this book. I saw an interview with the author on television and was intrigued. But I only got though a few chapters before giving up. The author does have a few good suggestions, but for me this book was more of a vehicle for the author to tell the story of his life. A great deal of each chapter was devoted to the author’s personal experience, and I did not find it relatable. I was looking for more of a step by step methodology of things I could incorporate into my life, and this is not that.

It reads like a mix and match of many other self-help book topics. Nothing new to learn or to discover. The book’s title is misleading because it implies to learn mentalist like techniques to “read” minds. It contains rather stories about celebrities he is meeting. Very questionable on how that book receives that amount of 5 star reviews. And it is truly not “life-changing” or “mind-blowing” as some are stating.

Incredible book with all kinds of practical advice to help you understand how people think and how to optimize your habits and mindset. I’ve been fortunate to have gotten to know Oz professionally and personally over the last few years as we worked together on this book and I can tell you that he is just as impressive in how he understands people and situations, both socially and professionally, as he is with his mentalist tricks. From someone who has worked with thousands of authors, I can tell you that this book is one of a kind and will be a real life changer for anyone who reads it. I also strongly recommend the audiobook, which Oz himself narrates. You can really feel his energy and it adds some texture to the reading experience. Highly recommend this book and following anything Oz does.

The book itself isn’t terrible but it merits 2 starts because the title and Oz’s marketing is entirely misleading. He markets it as a way to learn some of his skills to read people which is not at all what it’s about. It’s generally about how to be successful in anything you do. Again, not a bad thing to write about, but don’t tell us you’ll teach us some of your tricks and then not write about that hardly at all

This compelling memoir makes you feel like you’re right there, along for the ride. Oz offers valuable reminders on persistence and staying calm under pressure, while beautifully demonstrating the power of interpersonal skills, human connection and self-reflection. In a world focused on tech, this book is a refreshing guide to developing these essential human attributes. As for me and the journey I am currently on, the story of ‘the guy with the crazy eyes’ that haunted Oz for a year really resonated. We’re all on some kind of journey, use this book as a tool to help you get to where you want to be.Tyson Schoel

Mark Nepo’s insights are wonderful. He is so kind, caring, thoughtful, and REAL. I attended one of his retreats this summer and am a real fan of his.

Beautiful book created to make the reader stop, think, and appreciate life and all it has to offer. Uplifting and delightful.

Love this book. Great perspectives.

I love the day by day format, so you can literally pick up and read any day, or what ever one matches the calendar. The author is such a gifted artist and he shares that gift with us. The way he weaves such beautiful sayings into his stories, I have often had tears well up in my eyes.From Oct 21-Having Honest Friends-“I have a friend. His name is Alan. We have know each other for twenty-nine years, across eghteen states, and through storms we swore would never let up. We held each other when marriages failed, through accidents and cancers. We held each other up when our grandmothers died.””Having an honest friend-one before whom you can dump all your heart’s pockets and still feel that your are worth something-is a form of wealth that will buy you nothing, but will give you everything. And mysteriously and rightly, to find such a friend, we must be such a friend”I have this page earmarked and re-read it often. I’ve bought many copies and given them to friends, I loved it so much. And they have too.

In The Book of Awakenings, Mark Nepo breaks open the harried existence we call life and folds it into bite-sized nuggets of wisdom that nudge us along toward expansion, a more open mind, a more indulgent spirit, all in service to elevating the soul. Nepo writes like a man who has crossed the desert and made it to the oasis for the revitalizing drink, then decided the oasis was a pretty fine place to be. A poet and philosopher by trade, Nepo is also a cancer survivor. While he fought the disease, life changed, became scary, possibly shorter, but decidedly different. Nepo suddenly saw the world through slow eyes, coming through the trauma more receptive and mature, and ultimately decided to write down his observations which turned out to be a boon for the rest of us. Just like tempered glass needs a little heat to coax it to its super state of existence, Nepo needed a little cancer to get his 3-D priorities right with his Soul.The work comes across as if time is infinite (spoiler alert: it is), so why not settle down and make note of a few things while you can. A calendar book, meaning you can read the day’s entry or you can skip around and read it in any order you like, The Book of Awakenings is not about deadlines, but lifelines. I am reading it slowly, savoring it like I would an expensive box of chocolates, but in orderly fashion, leaving randomness for the second round that I know there will be. You can’t absorb this book through a single read; it’s too rich with its lifetime worth of wisdom crammed into a bit more than 400 pages. The Book of Awakenings is a perfect read for anyone who feels as though they’re muddling through: losing life, losing purpose, losing love, identity, focus, or worse, the malaise has manifested as a dis-ease in the body and there you are, broken, alone, clueless as to how to break the cycle. It’s also perfect for someone with no problems, but many questions.If any of these scenarios sound like yours, I have a suggestion: read The Book of Awakenings. While not a guarantee of success — only you can do that — it will help you find a path in the worst of times. The Book of Awakenings shows you why everything is a blessing, even cancer, and why there is no such thing as curses, only cursed thinking, which with a little work can be changed. Nepo wants you to celebrate life by seeing the good in all things, but don’t misunderstand. This is not a touchy-feely self-help book. Rather, it’s a retreat for the mind and Soul that will provide the self-loving space for the body to follow.It’s hard to imagine a more beautiful book ever having been written. A modern day Rumi, Nepo meets you where you are and turns you from the outside in. You owe it to yourself to follow.

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This book is a classic read. It can be read day after day and year after year. Mark Nepo is a phenomenal writer and he’s very inspiring.

This book has a thought for each day of the year. Mind provoking, and helpful in dealing with trauma and pain. I look forward to my time enjoying the lessons I learn each morning as I sit enjoying my meal coffee. Excellent read.